More than one man has said to me that men feel more emotionally open to their sexual partner after sex, whereas women in general seem to be wired the opposite way. Women want to feel emotionally intimate before opening themselves to the act of sex, but men get there more easily only afterward.
What in the world was God thinking, wiring us up this way?!?
I realized that perhaps the reason for men’s behavior is that the act of sex gives them access to the woman’s yin-energy, which helps to soften their heart and brings their emotions and feelings of love to the surface.
Just a random thought…
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